We have been so lucky to travel with my mother-in-law throughout the years. We’ve created so many memories and it has meant the world to all of us. Multigeneration travel has benefits for everyone involved and is something everyone should do if it’s possible.
I hear some of my friends saying, “Not a chance!” I’m lucky that I’ve got a great relationship with my mother-in-law and understand that not everyone does. If your family drives you nuts then stop reading but if not then read on for:
10 tips for making a multigenerational trip memorable.
FUN FOR ALL
Make sure everyone has something fun to do. People have different interests and no one should be forced to do something they don’t want to do. Make sure it’s stated that you don’t have to do everything together. It’s also a great time to try something together that you’ve never done before. Having ptions for everyone is key.
SPACE
When people have space, they have privacy. No one wants to be crowded together in a confined space. Separate hotels rooms or adjoining rooms are great, but I think a rental works best. That way, family members can have their own bedrooms while having a communal living room and kitchen.
PRICELESS MEMORIES
Give family members the chance to have private time with each other. I love hearing my girls talk about things they did alone with their Mimi. Those are memories they will have for a lifetime.
SHARE RESPONSIBILITIES
Remember that everyone is on vacation so you need to share all the responsibilities. That includes cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. Don’t take advantage of grandparents. They are there to vacation with you, not be your nanny.
MONEY MATTERS
Don’t let your parents pay for everything. You’re an adult, so your parents shouldn’t be footing the bill for everything. Split the bill at dinner, pay for their excursions, rent the car or condo. Discuss the budget before the trip so you’re all on the same page.
ADULT TIME
Enjoy some adult time during the trip. Make some of your own memories when you get a chance. Hang out while the kids are asleep or chat while the kids are in the pool or building sand castles.
PLANNING
Make sure everyone gives their opinions on excursions, restaurants, and accommodations. Even if one person takes the lead in the planning process, make sure you share your ideas and get everyone’s input.
CAPTURE MOMENTS
Take plenty of pictures throughout the trip so you can look back on them. My favorite picture is our family all standing on the town wall in Obidos, Portugal. Also, photobooks make great gifts!
SHARE YOUR PACKING LIST
Do you really need shampoo bottles for each person? There are some things you can share like blow dryers, sunscreen, magazines, chargers, etc. Share your packing list and see if you can combine some items.
RESPECT
Keep that golden rule in mind…treat others the way you want to be treated. Respect each other and feel blessed that you are able to share this adventure together. Multigeneration travel is a gift that you should cherish.
